Motivation (Part 1)

In large part, this topic is about your motivation to succeed in life. And a First Step is creating motivation is getting some definition straight. The terms self-discipline, willpower, and motivation are often used to describe something missing in ourselves. Time after time we invoke these words to explain another person’s success – or our own shortcomings: “If I were more motivated, I’d get more involved in school.” “Of course she got an A. She is self-discipline.” “If I had more willpower, I’d lose weight.” It seems that certain people are born with lots of motivation, while others miss out on it.

An alternative is to stop assuming that motivation is mysterious, determined at birth, or hard to come by. Perhaps what we call motivation is something that you already possess – the ability to do a task even when you don’t feel like it. This is a habit that you can develop with practice. The following suggestions offer ways to do that.

Promise it. Motivation can come simply from being clear about your goals and acting on them. Say that you want to start a study group. You can commit yourself to inviting people and setting a time and place to meet. Promise your classmates that you will do this, and ask them to hold you accountable. Self-discipline, willpower, motivation – none of these mysterious characteristics needs to get in your way. Just make a promise and keep your word.